1- Start a gratitude journal and use daily
2-Exercise daily and drink a lot of water
3-Practice unselfish kindness
4-Expect the best, prepare for the worst
5- Write an affirmation on your mirror in lipstick
6-Say daily 'Abundance flows into my life in surprising and miraculous ways on a daily basis'
7-Plan your day
8-Always wear your invisible crown
9- Feel like a woman, not a widow
10-Wear your invisible crown
11-Get a mentor
12-Choose one day to not talk about your late husband
13-Have 5 close friends and see them often
14-Turn off the TV, walk outside and touch something in nature
15-Know your 5 top strengths (Strength Finders 2.0 by Tom Rath), then use them
16-Fall in love with simple pleasures
17-Travel more
18-Honor your loved ones
19-Make your life matter starting today
20-Focus on the ways you plan on leaving a legacy (write your obituary)
21-Never miss a moment to celebrate
22-Trust in the unknown
23-Give forgiveness often
24-Create memory boxes for every family member
25-Record a video for your children sharing your very detailed love story (have a tissue box near by)
26- Learn how to save, spend and donate your money
27-Be a heroine to another widow
28-Be authentic
29-Be honest about what really makes you happy and just do it
30- Write a hand written letter to someone you love explaining why
31- Watch the movie 'Avatar' and notice how strong tribe mothers are portrayed in cinema
